"Peace is not won by those who fiercely guard their differences, but by those who with open minds and hearts seek out connections." -- Katherine Paterson

Angeles Arrien says that life will be simple if we follow the four-fold way counseled by indigenous peoples: 1. Show up, being present with all four mental, emotional, physical and spiritual intelligences. 2. Pay attention to what has heart and meaning. 3. Tell the truth without blame or judgment. 4. Be open to outcome, not attached to outcome.